Online and Offline, That is The Question

Dear Patrick, I recently struck up an acquaintance with a young lady online who said that she had four years of experience as a “sensuous female dominant.” Because she talked a good game, I agreed to meet her, and it was a disaster.

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Don’t want to play a perpetual student

Dear Patrick, I have been a member of the kink scene since my twenties. I am now in my mid-forties, and still have memberships in a few of the larger groups and make a round of the clubs from time to time. I very much want to continue to be a part of the community.

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Ask Patrick: Scared to be a SuperMasochist?

Dear Patrick: I am concerned that every time I play, I seem to require higher levels of pain. Each scene is ‚ heavier‚  than the last. I always knew I had masochistic tendencies, but this is crazy! Should I be worried?

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Ask Patrick: Don’t upset the baby

Patrick: I was shocked and upset by your column about the married couple who were fighting about the husband’s involvement in adult baby activities.

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ASK PATRICK: In BDSM, Slave chooses Master, not the other way around

Dear Patrick: I am a slave girl who is owned by two masters. I should say ‚”was owned‚” because they are breaking up. The house is going to be sold, and they will use the proceeds to go their separate ways

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Build Trust

Dear Patrick: I wish to be consecrated to the Vampire Lord who rules this city. By doing so, I would join a family of donors who keep their blood in a pure state so they can instantly gratify His needs. The blood is drawn with a sterile needle and tubing, then collected in a tumbler of brandy

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Not cut out to start at the bottom

Dear Patrick, I am very sure that I am a top. The other side of BDSM holds no erotic charge for me at all. But I keep reading (and being told) that the best way to learn how to be a top is to bottom

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